Do you know what brought the cat back? Closure.... Closure brought the cat back because he was finally satisfied. In life we all need closure; but in a relationship, closure is key.... and we're talking husbands and wifes exclusively; in fact this podcast has way more to do with family and friends than it does Husbands and Wives.
Are you a venter or a requester; and are you creating a toxic environment for your spouse to show up in?